Relaxing Exercises To Practice While In Quarantine

As the number of COVID-19 positive patients shoot up, stricter rules have been implemented. Social distancing is greatly highlighted as Ministry of Health (MOH) advised Singaporeans to avoid holding and participating in social gatherings of more than 10 people. Social gatherings pertains to birthdays, weddings, funerals, wakes, and other private events. These efforts can help prevent the spread of the virus.

Apart from this, many people have been in self-quarantine. Staying at home for long periods of time can pose a significant challenge for remaining physically active. Sedentary lifestyle and low levels of physical activity can have negative effects on your mental health and quality of life.

It is normal to feel stressed during times of threatening health situations. To combat this, you must stimulate the “relaxation response,” through a technique first developed in the 1970s at Harvard Medical School by cardiologist Dr. Herbert Benson. The relaxation response is the “state of profound rest that can be elicited in many ways”.

Create a well of calm without breaking the bank by following these relaxation techniques.

#1: FOCUS ON YOUR BREATHING

The Breath Focus technique is a simple and powerful tool comprising of long, slow, and deep breaths. It is also known as belly or abdominal breathing. As you breathe, you take your mind off the distractions and concentrate on your breathing and its sensations. Notice how long you can inhale and how deep you can exhale. This technique is helpful for people with eating disorders. However, it may not be helpful for people with respiratory ailments or heart problems.

#2: PRACTICE GUIDED IMAGERY

Ever wondered what it is like to travel freely on whim again? Well, you can make that possible through guided imagery. Guided imagery is a technique where you envision being in a soothing place or experiencing a happy memory. It reinforces the positive thoughts and emotions associated to being in a particular instance or place. Simply search Guided Imagery on free calming apps or YouTube videos. Ensure that you choose a recording topic that has personal significance to you. Personally, I want to see myself playing in the beach and listening to its calm breeze.

#3: DO YOGA, QIGONG, OR TAI CHI

These three ancient disciplines combine rhythmic breathing with a series of flowing movements. Empty your mind as you focus on the physical aspects of these disciplines. Moreover, you will be able to enhance your flexibility and balance. Since I cannot practice Hot Yoga anymore, I delight myself with a couple of Yoga exercises found in YouTube. You will be surprised with the wealth and the variety of free Yoga, Qigong, and Tai Chi exercises available there. Choose a video length and a difficulty level that you are most comfortable in.

#4: MEDITATE WITH MINDFULNESS

One of the practices that has greatly helped me stay calm is Mindfulness Meditation. Mindfulness is the Psychological process of purposely bringing one’s attention to experiences occurring in the present moment without judgment, which one develops through the practice of meditation. As our thoughts continue to juggle, mindfulness meditation is easier said than done. Take it easy on yourself during your first trials. Research suggests that continued meditation is helpful for people with anxiety, depression, and pain.

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BONUS: Apart from these relaxing exercises that will not cost you a dime, you may take short active breaks throughout the day. Short bouts of physical activity add up! You can dance and play with your children or perform chores such as cleaning and gardening. There is no excuse to stay active at home!

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Watch 倦子2: PSLE GO to understand the pressures kids face when growing up

By Jaspar Lim

If you are reading this, be glad that something has not yet happened to your child.

Child suicides are on the rise, as youngsters were pushed beyond breaking point and ended their lives. 10 fingers 10 toes. That was all that mattered in the past.

Now children are measured by a different set of numbers. 70 marks implies lack of effort. 80 marks is not good enough. 90 marks means room for improvement. When is enough?

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Stills: Zi Hui Journal, 倦子2: PSLE GO

倦子2: PSLE GO shouts out this message. Your child is tired, yet still trying. Remember, not regret.

As a parent, I urge you to help spread this message. Treasure your child, not their grades. It is not too late.


I was teleported back to a nostalgic era when I was invited to a premier screening of 倦子2: PSLE GO. The venue was perfect in echoing chapters of the past. Numerous movie posters of old greeted me as I entered. It reminded of my childhood, a much simpler time.

Every morning I looked forward to school to make new friends. Not to compete with my classmates. Each time the school bell rang, I dashed out of class to join my friends. It was a beautiful childhood. Do you remember those lovely memories? These moments made me a happy and balanced adult.

Your child may have been denied this privilege to feel happy. Do you remember when you first held your new born? Back then, your child was perfect. You do not remember. Your child became less every day, and had to try harder to achieve more just to make you happy.

10 fingers 10 toes. That was all that mattered in the past. Now children are measured by a different set of numbers. 70 marks implies lack of effort. 80 marks is not good enough. 90 marks means room for improvement. When is enough to satisfy your expectations?

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Stills: Zi Hui depressed, 倦子2: PSLE GO

Would you relent only when you witness an irreversible end? Suicides are no longer uncommon among the young. Each news report is heart wrenching; deepest pain only the parent would feel. It is an inevitable end, a result because of our actions, our inaction in protecting our most loved from the harsh judgement of others (and ourselves).

As a professional working adult, every day is an exam. Every hour we endure endless challenges. Do we score 100 marks each time? At home, we comfort ourselves with rest. We pamper ourselves with rewards. Yet, we forcefully push our child through additional stress after school. Your child needs your encouragement, not your enforcement.

倦子2: PSLE GO shouts out this message. Your child is tired, yet still trying. Remember, not regret. A great team effort, displayed most selflessly as Splash Productions embarked on a non-profit filming journey. Splash is to hit something or someone with full impact. In that moment of contact, the origin spreads out and covers a larger area than anticipated.

Splash Productions did exactly that. Impact and Influence. Never once had I been so proud to see familiar names when the credits were rolling. As a parent, I urge you to help spread this message.

Treasure your child, not their grades.


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HELPLINES

  • Samaritans of Singapore 
(24-hour hotline): 1800-221-4444
  • Tinkle Friend: 1800-2744-788
  • Singapore Association for Mental Health: 1800-283-7019
  • Care Corner Counselling Centre 
(in Mandarin): 1800-3535-800

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