How to Efficiently Overcome Money Worries in Singapore

With many people facing added mental, emotional, and financial stress, our overall health has never been more important. If you’ve been feeling less than yourself lately, you’re not alone. It’s normal to feel burnt out from everything that’s been going on. Unfortunately, burnout can extend to all parts of your life—from work to family and everything in between, including your finances.

Symptoms of Financial Stress:
There are obvious symptoms of financial stress that we can identify when we experience significant situations in our lives, as well as more subtle signs of burnout that can make problem-solving seem impossible. Watch for these signs and symptoms of financial burnout:

a. Constantly thinking about your budget, or lack thereof.
b. Feeling stressed about where your money is coming from and where it’s going.
c. Feeling guilty, exhausted, depressed, or overwhelmed about your finances.
d. Feeling cynical or apathetic towards your financial goals.
e. Lack of sleep or increased anxiety just thinking about money.

GET ORGANIZED

What’s the best way to help you stay on top of your finances? Get your finances organized and focus on the future! Understand the finer details of your finances, like when you get paid, when your bills are due, your monthly budget, and your savings. Find an organizational tool that works for you—whether that’s in an app, spreadsheet, or journal. We have lots of great resources to help you get started!

SET UP AUTO-PAYMENTS

If you haven’t set up monthly auto payments yet, why not? Take the guesswork out of your monthly payments so you never feel strapped for cash or worried about making payments on time. Keep track of your upcoming payments in your money diary so you’re aware of what’s coming in and going out of your bank account each week. And then don’t forget to check your bank statements at the end of each month to make sure your payments went through!

TALK TO SOMEONE

When you’re facing money problems, there’s often a strong temptation to bottle everything up and try to go it alone. Many of us even consider money a taboo subject, one not to be discussed with others. You may feel awkward about disclosing the amount you earn or spend, feel shame about any financial mistakes you’ve made, or be embarrassed about not being able to provide for your family. But bottling things up will only make your financial stress worse. In the current economy, where many people are struggling through no fault of their own, you’ll likely find others are far more understanding of your problems.

Keeping money worries to yourself only amplifies them until they seem insurmountable. The simple act of expressing your problems to someone you trust can make them seem far less intimidating.

DEVISE A SOLUTION

Brainstorm ideas with your family or a trusted friend or consult a free financial counseling service. You may decide that talking to credit card companies and requesting a lower interest rate would help solve your problem. Or maybe you need to restructure your debt, eliminate your car payment, downsize your home, or talk to your boss about working overtime.

EMBRACE YOUR DAILY ROUTINE

Get up at your normal time and stick to your usual routine. If you lose your routine, it can affect your eating – you may stop cooking, miss breakfast because you’re still in bed, or eat snacks instead of having proper meals.

LIVE A LITTLE

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Don’t make the mistake of budgeting out fun! Budgeting, like dieting, is all about balance and choosing moderation over deprivation. If you restrict yourself too much, you’ll feel unmotivated and less likely to see your financial goals through. Make sure to incorporate fun with friends, date nights, and “splurges” like spa days, haircuts, or coffee runs. Acknowledge your hard work by rewarding yourself when you need to.

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How to Cope with Money Anxiety

Financial or money anxiety has become more common than ever. If you have found yourself worrying about cash lately, you are not alone. In the American Psychological Association’s 2022 Stress in America Survey, 87% of the participants listed inflation as a trigger of significant stress.

Moreover, Traveloka found that 51% of Singaporean men respondents named financial stability as the top stressor in its wellness survey. The rise in prices coupled with the effects of the global pandemic has people from all backgrounds worried.

To know whether you are undergoing money anxiety, you must watch out for some signs. A few signs your anxiety surrounding finances is becoming a serious concern include:

a. Avoidance of bills and other important statements
b. Aches and pains such as headache or upset stomach when you look at your financial situation
c. Analysis paralysis when it comes to decision making
d. Lack of work-life balance
e. Rigidity in planning and its outcome
f. Rumination of money matters such as your retirement fund or credit card bills
g. Sleeping problems due to your financial situation

You see, financial anxiety preoccupies your life and can cripple your day-to-day work. It is more than just worrying about having enough money in your bank account as it manifests similarly to the symptoms of generalized anxiety disorder, such as tension and irritability.

Nonetheless, here are some ways you can employ to cope with money anxiety.

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#1: CHANGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH MONEY

We were taught about money during our childhood. If the values and practices you were taught in the past do not match with your own adult financial situation, it can lead to avoidance and isolation. One of the best ways to establish a relationship with money is to treat it as a problem to be solved. Look at your values, behavior, and practices objectively and learn more about yourself.

Creating a money practice or starting a habit of regularly assessing your finances is the simplest way to shape your relationship with money.

#2: DO REGULAR CHECK-INS

In situations where you feel highly stressed and anxious, your body thinks that it needs to react quickly to danger, so it goes into a flight or fight mode. Others tend to freeze and avoid their finances altogether. Thus, it is important to set a time to look at your money. This approach is more focused and safer for your wellbeing.

For instance, you can choose a random weeknight to examine your finances. Rather than waiting for an unfortunate situation, you can decide ahead of time to prevent a certain financial issue.

#3: CONSIDER GETTING SOCIAL SUPPORT

Many Singaporeans hide their financial issues because they feel embarrassed, or they blame themselves for their situation. However, many people undergo financial trouble often. Keep in mind that anyone can experience money anxiety or financial concerns, despite wearing expensive clothes or having prestigious jobs. We do not know how they keep up with their luxe lifestyle!

These issues can be less frightening when you face them with your social support. Your trusted social support may include your friends and loved ones. These people can help by providing a helping hand or by brainstorming solutions with you.

If your money anxiety is interfering with your daily life, seeking help from a professional can provide relief. Search for a mental health practitioner or a financial expert near you.

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