Money can’t buy happiness?
No, that’s not today’s debate.
Today’s chatter is about how buying stuff is not always the best way to bring joy.
So what else can we do to feel “happy”? I would boldly say, invest in experiences.
When you have stuff, the “happiness” that comes with owning it probably doesn’t last longer than a few days. Okay, maybe a little longer for some.
But when you gain an experience, it somehow becomes a memory that lasts.
Investing in experiences also brings people closer together! See how families and friends who went on a trip or join activities together still reminisce fondly on those moments they shared?
These memories will stay with them for years. There’s no denying it.
Memories fade slower than the thrill of new material possessions
Everyone has their style of spending, right?
Some like to shop and buy lots of stuff, machiam like all are must-haves.
But we all know that these material things one day will go obsolete as new trends replace old ones. So most will probably end up at the storeroom or the karang guni’s.
But for those who prefer to take on vacations and invest in experiences, I would say these people are making a wise investment.
You will cherish experiences more in the long run
I’m sure we’ve all had our moments where we look at past photos taken while on vacation or on activities and still recall how we felt back then.
Maybe it was a video “interview” taken before bungee jumping, a jump shot taken at a beautiful beach, or a strawberry picking session at a farm.
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Whatever it is, looking at those years down the road does bring back fond memories.
That instant satisfaction you get from buying something comes and goes. But experiences? It lasts.
And that’s why I would so much rather spend the money to “do stuff” than spend them on material things.
Experiences define who you are
Let’s not forget that experiences define who you are as a person.
Whether they are good, bad, or neutral, they ultimately shape your thoughts and who you are today.
For instance, I’ve plunged into the ocean while paragliding solo overseas, and that left me with a trauma with water and high-element sports.
Yeah, it’s not a pleasant memory for sure but that incident made me into who I am today. And when people ask me why I’m so afraid of participating in water sports, I live to tell the story.
Ultimately, the takeaway is clear: when it comes to the debate over owning stuff versus creating memories, go with the latter. Investing in experiences is not only far more meaningful but also more likely to bring lasting emotions. Not to mention, memories strengthen relationships and create invaluable connections. So, instead of buying something new you don’t necessarily need, why not plan a special trip/outing with a parent or child, a friend or partner, or even by yourself? That way, you will have a memory you can look back on for years to come. And to me, that’s definitely money well spent.