Should You Lend Money To Your Significant Other?

Lending money to your lover is a tricky business. You may be in a position where trust is completely present but, financial debts can pull you apart. An otherwise happy, supportive, and healthy relationship can come to an end if the money you borrowed is left unpaid.

With the exclusion of married couples, here are the things you must consider if you are thinking of lending your boyfriend or girlfriend money…

OBSERVE YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER

As societal norms dictate, lending your money to your fiancé or your spouse is acceptable as you handle payments together. If you are not on that stage yet, you must make a decision with your head and not your heart. Observe the actions of your boyfriend or girlfriend carefully and compare it against your preferences. Opt for someone who is financially stable and fiscally responsible. This does not mean that you are a gold digger rather it shows your perceptive nature.

For instance, your boyfriend borrows money from you in order to pay the bills because he spent his salary on the new game console. Are you going to lend him the money knowing he might not be able to give it back? Can he be able to handle greater financial issues as they arise? Think about it.

MAKE IT A PRESENT

If the amount is relatively small, consider it as a gift that you do not expect back. Do not lend an amount unless you are able to accept the fact that you may never see it again. That is always a possibility and you do not want to ruin your loving relationship with a “couple of bucks unpaid”!

EXAMINE YOUR FINANCES

Before anything else, make sure you can afford to lend and are not in debt. Just because you love your significant, does not mean that you are encouraged to loan him or her money despite being stuck with debt. Do not put your financial future on a downward slope just because your partner cannot manage his or her money too.

PUT AN INTEREST TO IT

When lending money for bigger things such as “buying a motorcycle”, you are bound to get paid for the full amount for a long period of time. For this, you need to make a signed contract that lay outs the amount of money borrowed, the interest rate, and the date/s of repayment.

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Chances are, your partner is asking for your help to avoid high interests offered by the banks. Consider having your partner match your savings account interest rate instead.

Sources: 1, 2, & 3

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Newbie’s Guide To The Dynamics Of Debt And Credit

DEFINITION

Before anything else, we must define two terms: debt and credit. Debt is the amount borrowed by one party (e.g., corporations or individuals) from another (e.g., banks). While Credit is the lawful agreement in which a borrower receives something of value today and agrees to repay later on in the future, usually with interest. Simply, when you use your credit card, you create debt. Debt here is the result from your ability to borrow – from your credit.

Now that you know the definitions and the differences between these two terms, you must discover the pros and cons of using credit as well as the 3 C’s of worthiness. All these are according to the Credit Bureau Singapore. Credit Bureau Singapore was set up in lined with the Monetary Authority of Singapore’s vision to enhance the public’s risk management abilities.

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PROS AND CONS OF USING CREDIT

The pros and cons of using credit or credit card are plain and straightforward.

Pros

Being able to buy what you need right away

Not having to carry cash

Automatic record of purchases

More convenient than cheques

Cons

Interest especially for items of higher cost

Have additional fees

Financial difficulties may arise

Elevation in impulse purchases may occur

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Image Credits: pixabay.com (License: CC0 Public Domain)

3 C’S OF WORTHINESS

Before swimming in a pile of credit, know if you are worthy to take the plunge by asking yourself a set of questions.

1. Character (Are you the type of person who will repay his or her debt?)

Does your credit history show that you are honest and reliable in paying debts?

Do you pay bills on time? Do you have a good credit score/report?

Can you provide a couple of character references?

How long have you been at your present occupation?

How long have you lived at your present home?

2. Capacity (Are you able to repay the debt?)

Is your job income enough to support your credit usage?

Is your job stable and steady?

How much is your salary?

How many loan payments do you have in total?

What are your current debts?

How many people are dependent on you?

3. Capital (Do you have back-up if you cannot repay the debt?)

Do you have a savings account?

Do you have various investments to use as a collateral?

Can you enumerate the properties that you own to help secure loans?

What other valuable assets do you have that could be used to repay debts?

It is essential to know all these to assess whether you are truly fit to apply for a credit card or loan. Furthermore, you may use the information to guide you in your responsibilities as a borrower. 🙂

Sources: 1 , 2 & 3

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Marriage With Credit: ‘Till Debt Do We Part?

Whether you like it or not, along with your marital vows comes the union of your finances. Your partner’s financial habits can either boost or ruin your financial future especially if he or she has a pile of debt. One’s credit history can affect several facets of your life such as loan eligibility, loan rates, and job applications. This is why it is important to openly discuss about your credit history and to plan your future finances together.

Here are some steps you may take…

1. HAVE A TRANSPARENT DISCUSSION

To prevent unforeseen monetary issues, understand each other’s view by explicitly discussing your differences on financial issues. For example, if your partner is a saver then, he or she may view money as an important currency that shall not be wasted.

Then, for honesty’s sake, show a copy of each other’s credit report. Know what your debt and income are actually worth so that you can realistically plan on how to pay for the remaining debt. Your partner’s lack of credit history will reflect on your credit score if you combine accounts.

2. PRACTICE THE ART OF MINDFULNESS

Gone are the days when Mindfulness is practiced solely for meditation. You heard that right! Actively paying attention to the present situation can affect your finances. As you are aware of what is happening in the present, you can make better decisions about money no matter how important it is. For instance, you will keep your credit score healthy because you are aware of the billing schedules. Also, having a present mind will allow you to be vigilant in checking whether the statement breakdown (e.g., phone bill’s data usage) is accurate.

3. LIMIT THE USE OF CREDIT CARD/S

It takes no genius to conclude that overusing your credit card will jumpstart your credit. So, if you cannot say farewell to the plastic card, you might as well limit your usage. As much as possible, keep your usage to a minimum, 25% below your credit limit is a good start. Then, pay off the balance monthly. Examine your progress together as you end the month.

Related Article: How A Couple Paid S$36K Worth of Debt In Just 6 Months

Image Credits: Gareth Williams via Flickr with Creative Commons License

Image Credits: Gareth Williams via Flickr with Creative Commons License

May these simple steps pave way for a happy and credit-free marriage! 🙂

Sources: 1 & 2

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Should You Borrow Money From The Bank Or Licensed Money Lenders?

Believe it or not, the bank often lends its money to people who are stable enough that they would not need to borrow the money anymore. This is why some Singaporeans turn to alternative ways of acquiring money including Licensed Money Lenders. Now, before you borrow money from any of these options, you must know their differences first.

BANKS

Loaning money from the bank guarantees that there would be future repayment of the principal amount and its interest. A loan can either be specific or open-ended credit up to a certain ceiling amount.

Characteristics:

1. Larger Loans – Banks are ideal for larger loans such as renovating your home, starting a business, or buying a car.

2. Credit Assessment – A good credit score with a low debt to credit ratio is a must to qualify for a loan. And, if you want to pay a low interest rate, you need to be vigilant about your credit score.

LICENSED MONEY LENDERS

Licensed Money Lenders are businesses that are regulated by the Singapore’s Law. Unlike the loan sharks that lend with high interest rates, licensed money lenders’ fees are controlled by the parameters of the Law, which means you can expect to have a fair deal. Some of the known money lenders in Singapore are Max Credit, CashMax Credit and Quickloan Pte Ltd.

Characteristics:

1. Smaller Loans – Licensed money lenders are the ideal option for smaller loans such as paying utility bills, getting your laptop fixed, or repairing your car (even amounting to S$1,500).

2. Credit Assessment – Unlike the banks, licensed money lenders give more leeway in the credit score. This is because they lend a significantly smaller amount. So, if you have a bad credit and you cannot get a personal loan, licensed money lenders are there for you.

3. Transaction Speed – Licensed money lenders approve the borrower’s application within the day itself!

4. Higher Interest Rate – Since they carry more risk for granting loan to people with poor credit rating, they usually charge a higher interest rate and late fees

Image Credits: Taber Andrew Bain via Flickr

Image Credits: Taber Andrew Bain via Flickr

Although the license money lenders give more freedom in the credit score, they will reject your application if you have a large sum credit card debt or if you have an outstanding loan from another money lender.

Sources: Investopedia and Sumo Credit Pte Ltd

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How A Couple Paid S$36K Worth of Debt In Just 6 Months

A couple from America has consciously decided to look into their expenses and pay off their US$27, 000 (S$36, 474) worth of debt in just 6 months.

Jackie or better known in social media as The Paleo Mama and her husband sat down to discuss their finances since they were supposed to buy a house. If they are going to pursue in buying the house, they will get themselves wrapped up even more in debt.

They found out that they had US$50, 000 (S$67, 546) worth of debt due to accumulated education/student loan and the worth of their new car. They did not realize that they were supposed to pay student loan quickly as its interest and value pile up in time. So, they were determined to turn things around.

Here are the 6 things they did to cut down their expenses and earn more income:

1. MONEY MANAGEMENT

First, it is important to track where your money is going through the last month’s bank statements and receipts. The couple noticed that they are spending too much on groceries and eating out.

Image Credits: Jason Rogers via Flickr

Image Credits: Jason Rogers via Flickr

With these things in mind, they devised a plan to categorize each expense and allocate specific amount of money on to it.

2. CUT DOWN MOBILE PHONE PLANS

They switched to prepaid phones and got rid of their iPhones. This brought them from US$160 cost of mobile phone plan to US$60 cost of prepaid phone per month.

3. CUT DOWN THE CABLE TV AND ELECTRICITY

They started using Netfilx and Hulu to stream shows (the first month is Free) rather than subscribing to cable TV. Also, they managed their electricity by turning off the lights and controlling the temperature of the air conditioner.

4. SELLING AND USING ESSENTIAL OILS

In order to earn more money on the side, Jackie learned how to make essential oils and sell them online. They also stopped buying over-the-counter medication and cleaning products and started using essential oils instead.

5. SELL THEIR STUFF

They sold their old car (now they have one family car), furniture, clothes, toys, and so on. Furthermore, they only buy used clothes on Goodwill or the local thrift stores. This helped them earn a lot of money.

6. BE HONEST ABOUT THE SITUATION

They called various companies to tell them that they can’t afford the various plans anymore. The customer services helped them to reduce the payments by more than 75%.

As you can see, Jackie and her husband were able to pay off over half of their debt by budgeting wisely and selling their stuff. Fortunately, you can also use these strategies yourself!

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