If you’re an introvert, you may sometimes feel like you’re at a disadvantage when it comes to networking and socializing. You may find it tricky to make small talk or be the life of the party.
But fret not, introverts. There are plenty of ways to become more extroverted if that’s what you want to be. In this post, we will outline a few strategies that have worked for us and other introverts.
Be more assertive
Don’t be afraid to speak up and express your opinion. When you’re at a meeting or social event, make sure to participate and be engaged. You don’t have to be the star of the squad, but by being bold, you will find it easier to get comfortable in social situations.
Sign up for social events
One of the best ways to become more extroverted is by seeking out social events that interest you. If you’re a bookworm, find book clubs or reading meet-ups in your area. If you like to dance, look for local dance classes or group dance occasions. The more you immerse yourself in activities that make you merry, the more painless it will be to become outgoing and less introverted.
Stop being too apologetic
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You might be saying sorry all the time because you’re afraid of speaking up. Afraid of being wrong, of standing out, or of making a silly mistake. But the more you say sorry, the more you find yourself disappearing.
You can start by raising your voice a little bit, taking up more space, and making more eye contact. You can also challenge yourself to speak up in meetings or ask questions in seminars. Just be mindful to start small and don’t be too hard on yourself.
Get comfortable with small talk
Learn how to be at ease with small talk. Small talk is just that—small talk. It can be pointless chatter about the weather or what you had for dinner last night, but it’s a fantastic way to practice speaking in public and getting used to socializing.
The more you practice, the more relaxed you will become. Start by engaging in small talk with the cashier at the supermarket, or striking up a conversation with the Starbucks barista during teatime. Soon, you will find that small talk comes naturally to you, and you will be ready to take on bigger and more daring social challenges.
Being an introvert is not a bad thing, but under some circumstances, you might prefer to switch to an outgoing personality. Consider social situations as practice, provided you have time to recover in between. Your social endurance will grow with time, and you could even develop a more extroverted, outspoken personality. Try it and see the difference for yourself!