How to Overcome the Fear of Trying New Things (Again)

The new Year of the Rabbit is the perfect time to take the leap by learning or trying something new. You can take up ceramics, learn French, start a book club, plant a seed, go back to the dating scene, or try indoor rock-climbing. As for me, I have to learn how to drive again.

I started learning how to drive in 2016 and encountered several accidents in the first few years. As time passed, I became more fearful and started to avoid driving by myself. I do not want to quit just yet. I am slowly regaining the confidence I once had.

The thing that no one mentions about stretching yourself is that it really sucks sometimes. Yes, trying new things is exciting, but it can also be terrifying and embarrassing. Getting over the initial fear of trying new things and actually having fun is part of the journey.

On that note, here are four strategies you can apply to overcome the fear of trying new things.

#1: JUMP WITH THE RIGHT MINDSET

People tend to approach a new experience in two ways – wanting to learn a skill or wanting to master it. The former encourages the learner to make mistakes and figure out how to do the process while having an enjoyable time. While the latter finds delight in doing well, impressing others, and discovering their natural talent in something.

Learning a new skill and having the ability to laugh at your own mistakes takes off the pressure. Creating mishaps is part of the process. For instance, you want to finish a marathon. Running in under two hours can be your goal, but getting in shape and meeting new friends are worthy outcomes too.

#2: REMEMBER THAT IT’S OKAY TO NOT LOVE IT RIGHT AWAY

No matter what new skill you are trying to learn, it is more likely that you won’t have a blast at the beginning. Organizational behavior researcher Keith Rollag once highlighted: “From an evolutionary standpoint, trying new things, for much of human history, could have been dangerous. Your performance can have a big impact on your status.” Status affects our ability to get the resources we need to survive. The fear of trying new things was an issue of survival.

One of the challenges of starting new experiences, joining new groups, and meeting new people is the anxiety of being the newcomer. Not loving the process right away is not a sign that you have made a terrible mistake. Instead, it is part of being human.

#3: DON’T CONFUSE YOUR FEELINGS

Anxiety and excitement are two sides of the same coin. Ever notice that all these feelings manifest in the same way? Whether you are nervous or excited, you get butterflies in your stomach and sweaty palms. You pace back and forth. Notice a man in his first job interview and compare it with a man who is about to propose. Both men feel adrenaline coursing through their veins. The body interprets the high-stakes situation in the same way.

This just shows that the brain is creating the story we tell ourselves. Bringing awareness to this fact will help us to manage our feelings better.

#4: BREAK IT DOWN INTO SMALL PARTS

The best way to deal with your current situation is to break down a task into manageable steps. When Michael Phelps competed in the Beijing Olympics, he had to swim with visual challenges. His goggles began filling with water the moment he dove in the 200-meter butterfly race. He recalled the race in an interview with CBS News:

“They started filling up more and more and more. And about 75 meters left in the race, I could see nothing. I couldn’t see the black line. I couldn’t see the T. I couldn’t see anything. I was purely going by stroke count. And I couldn’t take my goggles off because they were underneath two swim caps.”

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Despite not being able to see where he was and where he was going, he counted the strokes. He bagged the gold medal in that race and broke the world record. Breaking down the task into several parts motivated him to finish the race. A person who is learning how to drive can start by learning the safety protocols and theoretical background of driving, before practicing in an actual driving course.

Learning takes time and your journey is uniquely yours.

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4 Places to Shop for Cheap Funko POP!

Fans of pop culture merchandise definitely heard of Funko Pop vinyl figures. Funko POP! vinyl figures are comparable to figurines and are based on video game characters, comic books, movies, and other icons. The collectibles offered by Funko POP! will make you nostalgic!

These figures have licensed characters from varying franchises with oversized heads and eyes and depict each character in different poses, sizes, outfits, and finishing. Aside from that, Funko POP! products come with attractive window box packaging. The packaging includes details of the characters and other collectibles from movies to icons in Dragon Ball Z, Marvel, Pokemon, and more.

The history of Funko POP! dates back to 1998 when toy collectors Mike Becker and Claudia Becker manufactured bobblehead figures. The business skyrocketed after releasing the Austin Powers bobbleheads. Afterwards, the company released the Funko vinyl line in 2010. The company aims to dominate pop culture with its trending merchandises including Disney, Star Wars, Stranger Things, Marvel, and DC.

Now, the company has over 8,000 different products worldwide and thousands of different franchise licenses. You can find something suitable for you and your loved ones!

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#1: CAROUSELL

Carousell is a Singaporean smartphone and web-based consumer to consumer and business to consumer marketplace for selling and buying new and pre-loved goods. It has Funko POP! collectibles for as low as S$2 to S$4. Some of the products here are used and others are new. Some have boxes and others do not. You can purchase diverse figures from Star Wars’ Poe Dameron to Supernatural’s Crowley. It also has movie icons such as Frozen’s Elsa and Breakfast Club’s Brian.

#2: LAZADA

Lazada Group is one of the largest e-commerce operators in Southeast Asia. It has PocketPop! and Funko POP! vinyl figures from S$9.90. Some of the top-rated figures include Joker Action Figure 337, Star-War Mandalorian with Baby Yoda, Tinker Bell 295, and PocketPop! Keychain IT Pennywise.

#3: SIMPLY TOYS

Simply Toys is founded for toy collectors with varios locations in VivoCity, Plaza Singapura, and SingPost Centre. You can find a lot of figures here including Funko POP!, Q Posket, and other pre-order comics. Funko POP! Keychain: Spider-Man: No Way Home S3 – Friendly Neighbourhood Spider-Man retails for S$9.90. Banpresto Naruto Shippuden Q Posket – Uchiha Itachi retails for S$32.90. While pre-order DC/Marvel comics have different price tags.

#4: SHOPEE

Singaporean multinational technology company that specializes in e-commerce Shopee provides a variety of Funko POP! vinyl figures and keychains. Keychains retail for as low as S$4.19. The vinyl figures such as Star Wars The Mandalorian retail for S$15.11 and Marvel: Year of The Shield – The Winter Soldier (838) cost S$14.90.

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12 Cheap Thrills to Enjoy this Weekend

Living a frugal life does not have to be dull and boring! Keep yourself entertained while maintaining your budget by checking out these free or cheap things to do this weekend.

#1: READ A BOOK OR TWO

Dive into the mysteries and magical adventures of your favorite book. If nothing on your bookshelf strikes your fancy, you can take a trip to the local library to borrow one. You can also download free eBooks online.

#2: WATCH A MOVIE

Movies like Black Panther: Wakanda Forever and Black Adam are now streaming in cinemas. You can either watch a movie there or go to the public library to check out a film that you can rent. Netflix has a selection of newly released films too! Take advantage of your subscription with this streaming service.

#3: PLAY INDOOR GAMES

Invite your loved ones for a friendly game of cards or puzzles. If video games are more your speed, check out the free or cheap games available at the app store or other free gaming websites.

#4: PLAY OUTDOOR GAMES

Searching for an athletic endeavor? Grab your basketball or volleyball and head to the park. Join the recreational sports groups in your community. Some are free and others can cost you a registration fee.

#5: GO TO THE THRIFT SHOP

Hunt for bargains at the local thrift or flea shops. Remember, you do not have to buy anything. Browse around and watch out for great deals. It is more fun to try things on!

#6: TAKE A HEALING WALK

Smartphones, podcasts, and earbuds have transformed a walk around the neighborhood from mundane to entertaining. Even if you do not have access to good audio, stepping out for a stroll can help boost your mood. Check out this list of the best nature trails in Singapore.

#7: TAKE A LONG HIKE

Immerse yourselves with the sights and sounds of the natural world. Check out Singapore’s list of trails and parks and choose a beautiful long trail. Then, pack lunch and a water bottle to complete your hike.

#8: CYCLE AROUND

If you have a bike, ride around the neighborhood, and explore your surroundings. Do not have a ride? You can rent a bike at the East Coast Park Bike Shop.

#9: LISTEN TO PODCASTS

Your smartphone is the perfect podcast player! Use it to browse the various categories of free podcasts. Whether you are listening through Spotify or Apple Podcasts, you can keep it playing during a solo walk.

#10: TEACH YOURSELF TO KNIT

A lot of homes have yarns and a couple of knitting needles stored somewhere. If you do not have these, you can find a friend who will lend you a knitting set. Or you can head to the nearest Daiso to grab some supplies. The basics of knitting are easy. Here’s a great “getting started” tutorial that you can watch.

#11: TEACH YOURSELF ORIGAMI

Make origami decorations to beautify the Yuletide season. For example, you can create paper snowflakes or butterflies. You can aim to learn this skill and make decorations for future events.

#12: TEACH YOURSELF TO DANCE

Use your radio, speaker, or TV to dance to your favorite tune. You can invite your partner for a romantic dance. Who knows? It might become one of your top fun things to do on a Saturday.

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6 Surefire Ways to Save Money as a Watch Collector in Singapore

Do you have a deep affection for luxury watches, but you cannot afford them at the moment? Do you feel that some of the cool timepieces you see seem to be out of your budget? You are not alone! One of the most challenging parts of being a watch enthusiast is reconciling with the fact that a lot of the products you desire are beyond your means.

Having said that, here are 6 ways to honor your budget as a watch collector. Through efficient use of time and resources, it is possible to be a timepiece aficionado while being relatively economical!

#1: SAVE AND SELL WATCHES

In some cases, watches that seemed more affordable ten years ago are now worth two to four times their historic prices. As a timepiece buyer, you need to be more considerate with your choices. You can either sell your unwanted watches or save up for your desired piece.

The majority of watch collectors are purchasing fewer watches and selling some of their pieces in order to fund their new purchases. Becoming skilled at selling unwanted pieces from your collection or trading watches can help you enjoy your luxury watches without needing to spend too much for them.

When it comes to saving money for a watch, a good example is Wayne Chan’s journey. Mr. Chan is a Singapore watch collector who worked odd jobs and saved up his ang paos to purchase a Rolex watch at the age of twenty-one. It was near the start of his first year in polytechnic when he set his eyes on the Rolex Submariner worth approximately S$11,000. He kept every cent from his CNY and birthday ang paos, his internship pays, and even took part-time jobs to save up for the watch. Today, Mr. Chan’s collection is worth about S$19,000.

#2: CONSIDER PRE-OWNED WATCHES

It is understood that if you do not want to pay full price for a new watch, you can opt for pre-owned ones. Pre-owned watches can be sold from the individual sellers or from dealers who compete to offer consumers the best prices.

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Searching for pre-owned watches can be a great way to get the watch you want for less money, and often in a condition that you can live with. It may not come with the watch factory warranty, but you are getting much of the same experience in many aspects. You can start your search at carousell.sg and watchexchange.sg.

#3: INVEST IN CROWD FUNDING CAMPAIGNS

Investing in crowd funding campaigns is risky. Many campaigns deliver the product to the market on time and at the expected quality. However, there are some campaigns which deliver sub-par products and others which are never delivered at all. If something sounds too good to be true, it is.

Kickstarter has a selection of watch campaigns. For instance, manufacturers like Pebble took their ideas to Kickstarter to get investments when developing their products. Fitbit now owns Pebble. While Kickstarter may offer campaigns to suit to needs, do your due diligence before getting involved!

#4: LIVEN UP YOUR EXISTING WATCHES

Experienced watch enthusiasts will tell you that a budget-friendly way to spruce up your existing watches is to change their straps. Start by choosing a watch whose straps can be easily changed. Then, measure the width of the strap to know which strap or bracelet to buy.

Ideally, you can consult an expert to help you select the right straps. Alternatively, you can save money by asking for advice on watch forums or through social media platforms. Take pictures of your watch and ask other community members to suggest which types of straps go well with your watch.

#5: GO FOR JAPANESE WATCHES

If you are looking for new mechanical watches for under S$500, you can opt for Japanese watch makers such as Seiko, Orient, or Citizen. These makers provide quality watches while still maintaining their reasonable price tags.

Typically, the first watches of watch enthusiasts include these Japanese watches. These people find themselves keeping it or using it throughout the years.

#6: DO NOT FIXATE ON FUTURE VALUE

The best watches are works of art. You should purchase watches as you would purchase artworks, by acquiring the things that you love looking at for a long-term basis. Collecting luxury watches as an investment is fraught with risk as some of the most expensive watches depreciate drastically the moment you walk out of the store. In contrast, certain watches that were insanely unpopular before having gone on to provide incredible ROI.

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As Emilyn Lee, a Singapore watch collector, once said:

“I would never suggest we buy a watch just because it has investment value, because there are plenty of other things, we can put money in. I want to know more about the brand I’m connecting with, and what it’s trying to convey in its watches.”

Sources: 1, 2, 3, & 4

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Best Places to Shop for Winter Clothes in Singapore

Are you planning to escape the hustle and bustle of the city? Book your year-end trip to enjoy the cool winter season overseas.

Once you are all set, you can update your wardrobe to include some cold-weather staples. Drop by these budget-friendly places to stay stylish while avoiding the feeling of freezing to death!

#1: DECATHLON

This popular sports hub needs no introduction. After all, Decathlon has it all. Swing by any of its stores for winter clothes at affordable prices. Alternatively, you can shop through their online store and have your items delivered to your doorstep. For instance, you can purchase a Ski Jacket for S$65.

Website: decathlon.sg

#2: H&M

H&M can help expand your children’s winter wardrobe without breaking the bank. You can find plenty of hooded faux fur jackets, sweatshirts windbreakers, water-repellent mittens, puffer jackets, and other winter necessities here. Each item comes in stylish patterns and prints, so you and your children can match while on a holiday. Kids’ winter jackets retail for S$30 and above.

Website: hm.com

#3: MARKS & SPENCER

Layering for chilly weather is an easy task with Marks & Spencer’s vibrant collection for children and adults. Not only does this retail chain sell a range of windbreakers and jackets, but it also sells a variety of jumpers and sweatshirts. You can complete your holiday look with their winter wear offerings. Children’s hoodies start at S$13.90.

Website: marksandspencer.com/sg

#4: COLDWEAR SINGAPORE

Coldwear Singapore doesn’t just offer winter wear, they also have other travel-related accessories such as travel pillows, luggage, and more. You can shop for their winter jackets, sweaters, gloves, and hats from their in-house brand or keep a look out for winter clothes from international brands such as National Geography, Dexshell and Caterpillar. Sweaters are on sale for less than S$30 here.

Website: coldwear.com.sg

#5: WINTER TIME SINGAPORE

Known for its annual year-end sale, Winter Time can give you as much as 80% savings. Jackets and parkas can go as low as S$29 while accessories can be bought at S$8.

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Winter Time sells cold-weather staples such as winter boots and winter clothing for men, women, and children. You can take your entire family while shopping at any of its branches including IMM, Northpoint City, Vivo City, Parkway Parade, and Changi City Point.

Website: wintertime.com.sg

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